Turning 40 & 18 Year of Blogging

February 25, 2026

 Today I turn 40 and yesterday I got an email confirming that my domain was registered for another year. I started blogging on Halloween of 2008, but bought my dot com right before my birthday. 


With that, and probably some wrinkle paranoia, I've seriously updated my skin routine. I had gotten a little lazy last year and over this past summer I kicked it back into high gear. Granted I'm not a Botox user, so there is only so much that can be done for the forehead and the amoutn of faces I make. Anything to slow the process though. 


My big splurge for my 40th is that I am having my eyebrows microbladed, tattooed, by Haylee Mel PMU. I'm seriously stoked, these brows had some damage done to them in the early 2000's that I didn't start trying to fix until I was on maternity leave with Harrison. So whatever you see in photos, thats all smoke, mirrors, and makeup. Now the only downside to this, I have to give up using trentinoin for several weeks. 


Gasp! The shock and horror! It's taking some hard core self control to resist, but there is absolutely no point in using it though because all that work will be in vain when my eyebrows won't take the tattoo or it fades too fast. 


Well, anyway, let's get into my ridiculous skin care routine that could be more ridiculous but I am trying to not prevent the children from ever attending college, because I spent all out money on serums. 




Everything below is in the order I put it on! 


Morning Routine: 

Jojoba Oil (or Rosehip Oil)
70 SPF 

Then I do face cupping with about 5 passes on each area. 


Evening Rotine: 

Trentinoin 0.025% (2 nights on and 1 off)
Cerave Healing Ointment (around eyes and down smile lines)
Medicube Overnight Wrapping Mask (on my cheeks and on the smiles line around my eyes on non Tretinoin nights)


Then I like to do my LED mask a few nights a week and I do face cupping again in the evening. After that I will etiher put on a silicone forehead patch, use kinesology tape, or if it's a vacation and I can keep it on longer I will use Frownies. 


I love Frownies since they are much stiffer than K Tape, but at $25 per box I can't rationalize using them everyday. I also wish I would sleep on my back, but I'm a side sleeper and rarely sleep on my back. 


It's a lot, but I've gathered products over the years, so things run out really spaced out. Once I run out of the Dr Althea PDRN cream I'm going to try out Centellian 24 Madeca Cream Time Reverse. I've heard good things about it and it also works well to rebuild the skin barrier and can help on trentinoin nights. 


I don't have a link for my LED mask, I bought it about 6 years ago and paid $50 back then before they got popular. Also, when it comes to silicone forehead patches I have found that the cheaper ones last even longer than the name brand patches. 


My biggest game changer in the past year has been using ChatGPT for supplements and my skincare routine. Put in what you are using and your goals and it can help you tweek your line up. My cholesterol was borderline two ish years ago and I started messing with my supplemts to get it straight. I put all of my blood panel info and supplements into Chat and the next time I did blood work the doctor told me I was A++. I recently did the same to mess with my skincare and goals, I basically needed to add an SPF outside of my La Roche Posay and it gave me advice for what to stop using and when to restart with my upcoming microblading appointment. 





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'Tis the Season

December 15, 2025

I have gotten to were life updates are all I am coming up with for the blog. With that, here's life as of late. 


I found this wrapping paper at TJ Maxx a few weeks ago, the boys and I always hunt for a new color every year. This was fit the bill perfectly, plaid and folk hearts. Honestly I wish I had bought every roll they had, I'd only wrap in this for the rest of my life. 




You can probably tell that I am not an elaborate wrapper. I really love a brown cardstock tag with twine, the twine color tends to change depending on the paper I find. 


I've really come to enjoy this age with the kids. Everyone is easy to take places, they can self entertain, we know how to act in a restaurant. A few weeks ago Jeremy was out of town for a youth trip, so the boys and I went on a dinner date after KidStrong. Five Guys is probably our favorite place to eat. 



Our church had their annual Night at Bethleham event last weekend. The boy's favorite part is always the petting zoo. This year Elliot was brave enough to pick up animals and cuddle the bunnies to death. When we got home he asked me if I ever wanted a bunny as a little kid. I had to break the news to him that not only did I have a bunny, Dad breed them. We had tons of bunnies.  




I had to dig up the photo of Dad and Laura that I knew my sister had on her Facebook. There is nothing better than a litter of baby bunnies. 



These are the kinds of things that I wish Dad could still be around for. He loved animals and the boys would be getting such a kick out of helping him with ducks or whatever he currently would have in the yard. 



I love seeing the kids get excited about new things, they had never held a bird this up close. Of course we've been in that bird cage at the zoo, but their favorite Peyton getting birds was a bigger treat. Harry had a blast and Elliot squealed like the big fat chicken baby that he is. 




I laugh so much at Dill and his antics. He is such a sweet dog and in true oldest child behavior - always follows the rules. Once he got past being a puppy he hasn't been up to mischief once. But anxiety, that is where he struggles. Poor baby desperately wants to be in the center of what we are doing, but when new people are over he just can't get it together. We had friends over for pizza a week ago and he sat behind my chair with his eyes bugged out, letting the intrusive thoughts win. 


If he is really nervous he just stays in our bedroom or the back of the house, so I could tell just how much he wanted to participate since he was up front trying his best to not be awkward. Only issue is, he is so super awkward. 



Facebook reminded me that it has been exactly a decade since we took my absolute favorite family christmas picture ever. Shout out to my sister for always taking the shot for me when I get everything set up and tell her my ideas. 

What I should really put up are the practice shots I took with her in my spot while I was getting camera settings straight. 

Y'all can pick on Jeremy for eternity for this one, but nothing says love like agreeing to wear long johns at a tree farm for your crazy new mom of a wife. 


 

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Cakes, Birds, and Walking Pads

November 21, 2025

Y'all my little bitty newborn baby turned 7 a few weeks ago. 



He has been so excited to be older, honestly I think he's just elated to age by one more day every day. Right now he love football. He is constantly on the go and crashes hard when he gets in bed at night. He is still a big ole Mama's baby though. 




I called his cousin my fake niece, so I guess I'll have to call Peyton my fake nephew lol! We got to see some of our college kids/family friends recently and Peyton had his pet birds with him. Funny enough Elliot wouldn't dare touch them, and he acts like he is so brave. Harrison though, he loved it and let them land in his hand to eat. Harry really likes animals. I guess we really can't expect much from Elliot, it hasn't been that long since he was afraid of stuffed animals. 




We moved the boy's KidStrong class to Monday afternoons, and it has been so much better for them. I think since they're already on the move, they don't mind going. Saturday was a bit like pulling teeth and they were both a little off with how they behaved in class, but neither of them wanted to leave the house on a Saturday. 

Recently they both got recognized in class. Harrison leveled up, and Elliot had class captain and the coach's award. 



This is so dumb, but I pulled out the walking pad and Honey was thrown off by it. She walked around me the entire time looking like I was involed in witchcraft. I kept moving, but not going, and that just wasn't right in that little puppy's brain. 



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40th Annual Natchez Balloon Festival

October 22, 2025

 Ideally, I'd like to come back home every year for the balloon festival, but it doesn't always work out. This year we managed to get in town, and have one really good day of balloons. 


Granted it was Friday morning, races happen on Saturday, but based on the past -- I had a feeling that Friday would be the day to see anyting. I was right. 




We started out bright and early on the Vidalia Riverfront. Balloons were supposed to launch from the bluff, but alas... that rarely happens. They ended up launching from the Vidalia airport, so we took off to see who was still setting up. 




I was nervous about what we would see, but it ended up being a good morning for it. 







If at any point int his blog post you wonder "Where is Harrison?" Just know that he hates heights, whether he's up high or the object is high -- so this was a bust for his excitement. He was over the whole ordeal and wanted Jeremy to take him home. 






After the morning launch, we headed to The Donut Shop. I kind of wish now that we had gone back at lunch and bought tamales as well. 






I thought the boys would be glued to this idea, they had a dog show where the dogs were doing the long jumps like you see on television competitions. 


It was beyond hot at this point, and several classes were on a field trip to this event, so the crowdedness wasn't that enjoyable. I really wanted to stay to see all the demos, but the heat was too much, so we headed off to lunch. 




It's funny what I do when Jeremy isn't with me vs. what I do when he is. This made me realize I'd never taken the man Under the Hill to lunch, so we settled in at The Camp. 




I had originally planned to bring Harrison to the balloon glow, but after the monring launch -- I wasn't going to waste the time. He happily stayed back with my mom while Jeremy, Elliot, and I wandered the festival grounds at Rosalie. 






How do y'all like that worried face? He said the balloons were too loud. 








It was a quick turn around trip - we got there Thursday night and headed back home Saturday after lunch. Just enough to see the balloons. 

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This Past Week

October 16, 2025

A week where all the activities feel like fall, but Louisiana weather never feels like fall. It's cooled down, but it definitely isn't in the range that has me jumping for joy. 


Elliot had his book character pumpkin project this week and we decorated for the book "There Was a Black Hole Who Swallowed the Universe." It looks less insane in photos than it does in real life. 




The neighbors chickens escaped yesterday and caused some excitement on our end as Jeremy locked up the dogs and captured it. Poor girl didn't realize what she was signing up for when she jumped the fence. 




Post homecoming parade (which I hope someone got a photo or video of us running down the road like lunatics) the kids pulled the magnetic tiles as a great way to play in such a way as to delay bedtime. Peep Elliot still wearing the beads they threw at the parade, which he thinks are real gold. 




Also, I think this was all a cross between homecoming parade tired mixed with trying to pack to go to Natchez tired - but let me leave for work a second past the time I'm supposed to and I'm catching a bridge. I managed to walk into my classroom literally one minute before the kids. 




In the same thread of thinking - being tried and making an extra coffee works great while teaching... it does not work great while progress monitoring oral reading fluency. This was not the time to sit still lol! 




It's homecoming at the kids school this week, that school is also tied to our church, which means we get rolled. The perks of being married to the youth pastor, yearly toilet paper before my kids even hit middle school lol! The boys get such a kick out of it, on the second night they went outside to surprise the girls that were rolling and ended up helping roll their own house. 


The fun promptly ended on the second day after school of toilet paper pick up. Harry declared this to be rude. Honestly, they're old enough to earn their keep. 




I snapped a quick picture of the buttons I had one of my parents make my own children's teachers this year for homecoming. It's from Les Vues Designs on Facebook. After I got a really cute one for the school I teach at, I had to have some made for the kids school. I just wish I had also gotten one for myself. 



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No Plants Were Watered (The Shrubs Are Filing Complaints)

October 13, 2025

After a gloriously wet summer, we've moved into a dry as can be late summer/fall. This has been terrible new for any plants anywhere near my realm of responsibilty. The little shurbs are hanging on for dear life. 


In a moment of genius, and a need to dead head some flowers, I put the boys on the task. The following photos are just evidence that two little boys can water each other and nearly everything in the yard except a shrub desperate to find water before giving up on the final stages of its life.  




I can say that the potted flowers were watered well, because I did it myself. Elliot was watered quite well. You can classify him under self watering. 



Harrison was not watered whatsoever, and the plants in his charge were also lightly watered, as a wasp came out and he then threw the waterhose across the yard. 


Spraying me alone. 


I went to the backyard to grab clippers and came back out the front door only to be sprayed once again. 




I've now gained the utmost sympathy for my father, who for many years I snuck up on and sprayed with the water hose every single chance I got. I can't name a single time he washed his car that I wasn't also chasing him with a waterhose while he hollered. 

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