Five Things on Friday

October 9, 2026

It's Friday! Plus we (I) have fall break next week... then it's balloon festival in Natchez. Here's a few things from this week. 


These Fudge Bars. I found the recipe on Instagram and they turned out good. My brown sugar was kind of clumping, and honestly the clumps of brown sugar in the oatmeal cookie mixture were divine. The fudge topping is so so so good. I was basically racing Elliot to eat any. Between the two of us we finished the pan in less than a week. I'll share the recipe below, but I won't save it to my recipes since it isn't mine. It's from @cookingwithkira.ia on IG. 




Makes a 9x13
Ingredients: 
3/4 c butter
1 3/4 c flour
1 1/2 c oatmeal
1 c dark brown sugar
1 tsp vanilla
1/2 tsp baking soda
1 can sweetened condensed milk
12 oz semi sweet chocolate chips
2 tbsp butter

Directions:
1. Combine butter, flour, oatmeal, brown sugar, vanilla, and bakig soda. Mix with a fork until crumbly. 
2. Reserve 1 cup of the mixture and set it aside. 
3. Press the remaining mixture into a greased 9x13 pan. 
4. In a small saucepan, combine condensed milk, 2 tbsp butter, and chocoalte chips. Stir until completely melted. 
5. Spread chocoalte mixture over the oat mix in the pan. 
6. Sprinkle over reserved oat mixture, clumping some of it in your hands as you go to make bigger brumbles. Press it in. 
7. Bake at 350 degrees for 25 minutes. 




School and flu season is upon us people, if you aren't using nasal iodine you need to get on it. When I'm consistent I find I don't catch what is going around. When I get lazy and tell myself I won't catch the colds... I have caught it all by the end of the week. 


I just use one spray in each nostril in the evening when I'm done being around crowds. 



It's homecoming week at the kid's school, so Thursday during the parade the staff hands out water. Thank goodness this year someone had the idea to let us ride in side by sides! Our school doesn't have a band or any walkers for the parade, so last year's police escost ran through the parade at 30 miles an hour. 

We started running instead of walking, got way behind, attempted to jump onto another float, and eventually gave up any walking and rode a float all the way back. 




So this year was riding, thank goodness, and we only half needed it. The police escort actually went at parade speed. Then we got really lucky and ran into another school's parade and that slowed us down even more. Add that on top of the nice weather, and you couldn't ask for better.




Tis rolling season. Or as Elliot calls it, paper-toweling. 




Now that Harrison is getting older we have been needing a way for them to contact us if we let him stay at home for a few minutes while we run errands. Both of us are totally against devices and phones, hashtag 90's childhood. The kids only have a gaming system that isn't on the internet and they can only play games that Jeremy buys or allows the rating. 


All that to say we landed on a Tin Can landline. I'm honestly in love. You can even set who is allowed to call and who they are allowed to call. It doesn't hurt that it is also cheaper per month than any other phone out there. Trust me, my first thought was landline again, but that is nuts what they want per month. 




Do youself a favor and get an affagato from Jet Coffee in Lafayette. We went one afternoon, so I didn't want caffeine, but the girl working the window made me so happy when she said they could do it as decaf. It's also Elliot approved, but that child has been trying to drink coffee since he was a baby. 

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What's for Dinner?

October 7, 2026

I need inspiration and have got to get back into the groove of meal planning. 


I haven't quit meal planning, it's just that the meals I've been plannig have been utter flops. Instrgram is such a massive flop and disappointment that as a family, they've banned me from using recipes from there. I feel like my best bet is to go back to the days of newborn Elliot cooking. I grilled something and had two sides. Nothing complicated. Or maybe even further back to when I ate mainly Paleo, becuase people are claiming everyone loves stuff that they post... and it's generally underwhelming. 



Thursday | Grilled Chicken, Alabama White BBQ Sauce, Grilled Zucchini, Peppers, Onions, and Potatoes

Friday |  Eating Out

Saturday |  Lasagna (I need to finally share this recipe) 

Sunday |  Leftovers

Monday | Loaded Breakfast Skillet with Biscuits (either these Cinnamon Crunch Pumpkin Biscuits or these)

Tuesday | Meatloaf, Wedge Salad with Cattleman's dressing, Roasted Potatoes


Lunch for the Week | Chicken Rice Bag Trend - Rotisserie Chiken shredded, ready cook rice, spring onion, cilantro, soy sauce, siracha, and sesame oil - top with chili crisp 
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Things That Have Changed Since I Last Really Blogged

October 5, 2026

 It's been a bit, and I really miss writing. 


This has long been an outlet. I wrote back in the days of Xanga, and before that I had a stack of speckle books. I find that if I get the thougths out of my head, I'm more clear... I don't know. I miss documenting. 


It probably doesn't help that the technology has gotten ahead of me and for the first time in my life I don't really have a working camera. My DSLR "works" but whatever has gone on with SD cards is beyond me. Suddenly the wifi card I have is useless and doesn't work with any apps. But what have we moved to? No one has informed me and at 40 I feel at times like the world has moved on. I'm officially behind. 


I'm still teaching, year 18 is in the works. That also means we have been married 17 years. That means this blog started 18 years ago this month. 


With all this number talk, I don't even know what to say about fitness and health stuff. The further I get into life, the less time I have. I can barely find time to workout these days, before work does not work at all. After work I'm dead tired and have a to-do list out of the window. It's immediately kids homework, any sort of picking up around the house, and then dinner, bathe everyone, then bed. During the summer I was doing great with walking on my walking pad, but I've lost my zeal of tracking macros or anything. Some would say, who cares, but in a family where gaining weight could be classified as a Olympic Sport - I only have so much wiggle room. So, both of those things need to be worked out. 


This isn't sounding quite as old blog funny Emily. It's more of the years where I feel like I've been sucked into a black hole again. Maybe I have, the currect stress is weighing heavy. At the same time, getting it off my chest might actually lighten me up. It's got to be better than dragging all this around in my head all day. 


On a more positive note. Here's a few things we've been up to in photos. 




Nothing special here, the lighting was just really good at Whataburger. 




Elliot has finally hit the loving to read age. He dug into his brother's Dog Man books at the start of school. 



I can't remember why I took the picture, but Harry was doing homework. I was probably laughing at him wrapped in a blanket while he did it. You'd think we keep the house freezing the way the kids act. In fact, I wish I could bribe Jeremy to let me run it even cooler. 




This photo is really the epitome of everything I've been feeling taken down by. For the first time in all the years of the kids in school, I didn't take a first day of school photo. This was two weeks into school after a church business meeting by the preschool sign. Elliot didn't want to take it and Harrison was trying to force him to smile. 



The most exciting thing of the last few months was that Harry professed his faith in Christ and Jeremy got to baptize him. What a blessing, I just pray that he keeps a strong faith and grows in his walk his entire life. He makes me laugh, he's such the mini version of Jeremy with his memory recall. He can call back bible facts way better than I could at his age. It's just so special that it's gone beyond knowledge and you could see that he really believed with is heart. 
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Spring Break

April 17, 2026

Spring break this year was so welcome, and that fact that we stayed home made it feel even longer. Since the weather was great (Mardi Gras break did not work out for us weather wise), we had a quick local camping trip. 




If you've ever thought that camping meant less skincare routine, I'm here to tell you it absolutely does not. It only means remember to put on sunscreen as soon as you wake up. 


Now that the boys are bigger, it is much easier to stay in the bathhouse longer to get such things done. 




Dill wasn't having it this particular night. He never sleeps on a bed and was insistent. This was when I was trying to coax him into his kennel and he was ignoring me and wanting to get on my side of the air mattress. 


He ended up having a good reason. Around 10:30pm I heard what could only be described as a bear walked past the tent. I've never, in a decade of camping with the kids, heard an animal like this. I know my racoons and deer. The palmettos add another layer of animal activity since they're so loud. But whatever came through them brushed the side of the tent, sending Honey into a tizzy of buffing. It stood above my head while I was laying on the air mattress and had a very slow graceful walking sound. But it sounded huge compared to the usual racoon that is nosing arond looking for snacks. 




Harrison didn't want to play football with Elliot, and the dogs were fussing that they couldn't be off leash, so I convinced Harrison to read the Boxcar Children to them. 




This is everyone playing in the sand around the tent pad before we realized we didn't pack a single towel for this trip. Baths ended up being the kids running in the splash pad. 




Another holiday task was installing a water drip irrigation to the front flower beds. I just cannot for the life of me bring myself to sit out there watering, plus the heat here just sucks the water right out of everything. After our super dry March... and what is continuing to be a fairly dry April, this had to happen. The only issue I ran into was on the very last plant I was moving rocks and found myself a baby snake. 


This is where I will say that living in Alabama for a short stint was just enough flooding therapy in and of itself that I still don't want to touch them... I still scream... but my freakout is way less. I haven't been told in years that I can't shoot a gun in the house, so clearly I'm toughing up. (Kidding, but Jeremy did tell me to not shoot at a snake if I ever saw one indoors.) 




Last but not least, we got our hands on some shrimp and had a little outside boil for the three of us that eat it. We really need to nail down getting the seasoning perfect, so if you have a proven method let me know. 



 

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Fishing, Bumper Cars, and Velcro Dogs

March 6, 2026

 Here's a little life update dump. Mostly the end of February, honestly, how is February 3 days long and January lasts a decade? Anyway, here's what we've been up tp. 


Velcro dogs might be a cute moniker for what is happening, but it when I'm cooking or walking through the many doorways in our 1940's style home... it gets annoying. Maybe it's just my mood today just thinking about it, or maybe it is the fact that Honey has been acting up and being an awful teenage dog lately. I think I took this photo in humor, but after the mess that puppy has been making... the humor has been sucked dry. 



I'm going to be so sad when the kids graduate from KidStrong. I know I bring it up a bunch, but the character development side of it is 1000% worth it. 




For my birthday we checked out the new Fish Box restaurant in Lafayette and then wandered around the Asian Market. If you are wanting a quick in and out, this is the way to go. I really liked that I could pick a variety and not have just one or two rolls. 




We had the opportunity to go fishing at our friend's pond over the break. I don't know what has changed in Harrison that made him like fried bass, but we get excited about any new food he takes on. The boys being at an age where I'm not constantly fretting that they will fall into a body of water or a fire is so nice. Until Elliot hit 5, there were many camping trips and water experiences where I was certain I would be fishing a child out of water. 


Seriously, I wrote about it years ago, but Harrison wasn't listening to instruction and slipped at the Cahaba River and we both went under. A friend's husband had to fish us both out. Thank goodness for her big ole firefighter husband, I don't think I would have been able to easily get us both out of that rushing river. 






To celebrate Harry turning 11, we took a few of his friends to Urban Air. It definitely isn't priced to been a common occurance, but it is definitely worth it for special occasions. 






Last but not least, just another family date night with an 11 year old that can do without photos. 
Oh man, looking at my poor little mini van in the background, that was before I was rear ended by a brand new dirver at a red light 😢. Seriously, I was the second car at a dead stop for several minutes and was just randomly hit after the driver had been sitting behind me at this light. The light went for so long that I got out of my car twice trying to figure the situation out and the light was still red. 




When it rains it pours I guess, the same day I was rear ended (thank goodness that is covered by insurance) Jeremy's truck started acting up... and we've been fussing with our dryer. Murpy's Law is always so much fun. 


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Turning 40 & 18 Year of Blogging

February 25, 2026

 Today I turn 40 and yesterday I got an email confirming that my domain was registered for another year. I started blogging on Halloween of 2008, but bought my dot com right before my birthday. 


With that, and probably some wrinkle paranoia, I've seriously updated my skin routine. I had gotten a little lazy last year and over this past summer I kicked it back into high gear. Granted I'm not a Botox user, so there is only so much that can be done for the forehead and the amoutn of faces I make. Anything to slow the process though. 


My big splurge for my 40th is that I am having my eyebrows microbladed, tattooed, by Haylee Mel PMU. I'm seriously stoked, these brows had some damage done to them in the early 2000's that I didn't start trying to fix until I was on maternity leave with Harrison. So whatever you see in photos, thats all smoke, mirrors, and makeup. Now the only downside to this, I have to give up using trentinoin for several weeks. 


Gasp! The shock and horror! It's taking some hard core self control to resist, but there is absolutely no point in using it though because all that work will be in vain when my eyebrows won't take the tattoo or it fades too fast. 


Well, anyway, let's get into my ridiculous skin care routine that could be more ridiculous but I am trying to not prevent the children from ever attending college, because I spent all out money on serums. 




Everything below is in the order I put it on! 


Morning Routine: 

Jojoba Oil (or Rosehip Oil)
70 SPF 

Then I do face cupping with about 5 passes on each area. 


Evening Rotine: 

Trentinoin 0.025% (2 nights on and 1 off)
Cerave Healing Ointment (around eyes and down smile lines)
Medicube Overnight Wrapping Mask (on my cheeks and on the smiles line around my eyes on non Tretinoin nights)


Then I like to do my LED mask a few nights a week and I do face cupping again in the evening. After that I will etiher put on a silicone forehead patch, use kinesology tape, or if it's a vacation and I can keep it on longer I will use Frownies. 


I love Frownies since they are much stiffer than K Tape, but at $25 per box I can't rationalize using them everyday. I also wish I would sleep on my back, but I'm a side sleeper and rarely sleep on my back. 


It's a lot, but I've gathered products over the years, so things run out really spaced out. Once I run out of the Dr Althea PDRN cream I'm going to try out Centellian 24 Madeca Cream Time Reverse. I've heard good things about it and it also works well to rebuild the skin barrier and can help on trentinoin nights. 


I don't have a link for my LED mask, I bought it about 6 years ago and paid $50 back then before they got popular. Also, when it comes to silicone forehead patches I have found that the cheaper ones last even longer than the name brand patches. 


My biggest game changer in the past year has been using ChatGPT for supplements and my skincare routine. Put in what you are using and your goals and it can help you tweek your line up. My cholesterol was borderline two ish years ago and I started messing with my supplemts to get it straight. I put all of my blood panel info and supplements into Chat and the next time I did blood work the doctor told me I was A++. I recently did the same to mess with my skincare and goals, I basically needed to add an SPF outside of my La Roche Posay and it gave me advice for what to stop using and when to restart with my upcoming microblading appointment. 





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