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Kindergarten Graduation

May 21, 2025

 The baby of the family graduated K last night. 
He was super nervous to be on stage and say a line, but he did a great job. It was funny to see his demeaner change when he was trying to be serious and remember his part, then pump his fist in the air when he nailed it. 


Now let's pack up and go kayaking in North Arkansas!


Mom even made a whirlwind trip down for this and disappeared back towards Jonesville before I was out of the shower this morning. She retires this week! 



Elliot and his teachers this year. 


Seriously, I'm so excited that our entire meal plan for the next week includes sandwiches in a creek and kayak snacks. 

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Apparently I'm into Bird Identification Now

April 29, 2025

Last week we had yet another major flash flooding event for our area. It rivaled the 2016 flood. School should have been delayed, but we trudged out to work in enough water to swim in. I took the truck and it still took about an hour and a half before I was able to find a path.  


It was definitely a "thank goodness we are piers" kind of day. That's  statement you won't hear me say often. 



I swear, what did we do over the weekend? Not much. Or at least very little evidence of it. We went to Kidstrong, and Elliot twisted my arm to go to Elevation Station. 

Harrison really surprised me. With all his sensory troubles, what he precieves as high or big can cause a strong reaction. We've hoped and prayed for years that he would grow out of some of these things as he aged. Saturday I saw another little glimpse of growing out of sensory issues, he went down the giant slide at the jump park. Y'all it is giant, floor to ceiling high, and you fly through the air for a good bit before touching the ground. He has initially said he wouldn't do it, but snuck up there twice and told me about it after. I was so proud of him. 

Meanwhile in the land of goldendoodle puppies who still haven't figured out their names... Honey is wearing Dill down. He will play with her all day long, but she's teaching him to be cuddly. She has slowly snuggled in to being this close. Sunday I almost saw spooning, it was the shape with no touching! She's definitely working on him, he's crawled in our laps to cuddle and that didn't happen before. 


I'll be standing outside to make sure kids don't get in our yard this weekend. 

After three days of trying to identify the sound of the babies in this next... the bird in our backyard is a Mississippi Kite. I've never seen once before, and the babies sound like dog squeaky toys. It took this one landing in another tree so I could get a good look, but I think we've got two families of them in the backyard. 


Last but not least, I got a good laugh as I was working on my HEAR Journal for discipleship group this weekend. Elliot opened a window and gave me his entire business plan for opening a jump park that is entirely free. 

This is the chid that asks for everything and has heard "Mama isn't paying for that" a lot at this point in his little life. 


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We Shoud Just Call Her Hot Honey

April 3, 2025

I'm that mother where when I'm asked for the overpriced jumbo sized bag of candy in the checkout, I can easily say no. 

It turns out though, when Elliot starting making puppy demands, put a note on the fridge saying we had 3 days to produce a puppy, and continue to talk about it... I gave in a got a puppy. 


I'm not joking, I think he was about to extort us for a puppy. That 3 days note was omnious. 🤣


 


Honestly, this is a phase of life where we probably needed the humor a puppy brings. Even Dill needed it. We also have the time since Elliot is now 6 and everyone sleeps through the night and can fx their own snack. 


So we got this pup. I was certain I wanted a dog the same size as Dill, and it had to be a nonshedding breed. Jeremy has always wanted a Golden Retriever, but they are a shedding nightmare. We hit in the middle and got a mini Golden Doodle. A few friends of ours had gotten theirs from the same lady, so we went for it. Honey should be the same size as our cockapoo when she's grown. 



This is Elliot on the second day at home. He was complaining that his arms hurt. I had to tell him several times he could in fact put her down. She was so calm and sweet at first, so she was carried. Now she's gotten comfortabe and is super silly. The girl runs at light speed and is always up to something. 

Then she will need a rest and Elliot is all about her again. The poor child isn't a fan of that alligator puppy phase. 



Luckily she got the memo that she is Elliot's dog. She follows him everywhere. 


I really wish I had photos of what Dill has been doing, but it wouldn't translate well. Whenever Honey gets really excited and yapping around the house, he grabs her ball, squeaks it at her and takes off running. He will turn to make sure she's still following, and keep running until she calms down. 

It took him a day or two to figure out that a puppy is more tolerable when they're tired, and he's doing his part to keep her that way. 

I've even caught him dropping her ball to get her attention on it. 

In her other terrorist acts, Dill was asleep on the floor next to her (she was appearing sweet) and she hopped up when his eyes were closed and barked. It scared the mess out of him and I had to "protect" him from the puppy. He just had this look of "Why is she acting so crazy this late in the evening." His game of wearing her out started after this event. 

There's even a touch of attitude in that fluffy cottonball. We had her in a pin while we were eating dinner the other night, she was whinning for a few minutes, and we suddenly heard awful growling. I guess Honey decided she was done and went from sad to angry (hot headed Honey), and made sure we knew it. All four of us were cracking up. 


Of course, my mom manipulation has been to get Elliot to read to the dog every night to practice his sight word flash cards and read a level reader. Harrison isn't a part of the targeted reading practice, he just likes to read to her and changes whatever character he's reading to her name. I got a good chuckle when I heard the book "Goatilocks" being read with Honey as the main character. 

I'm of course back at puppy training, and I really hope she is a agreeable as Dill was. He was really a breeze to train. 

I broke down this time and got a Snuggle Puppy for the crate, I had debated for Dill and didn't. If you are on the fence, get it. They've got cheaper knock offs on Amazon. She has been sleeping through the night so well and isn't a problem to kennel at all. Poor Dill howled and cried at night for ages, I think I've heard her twice this week and that was on night one. 

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This Past Week

March 11, 2025

 There is just something strange about this big child of ours turning 10. The last 10 years have been a blink, and it shows just how much the 10 leading to age 20 are going to blink by as well. 

As per the request of the birthday boy, I decorated the kitchen and we blew out candles on a pile of cinnamon rolls before school. Luckily the kids care more about a present than the wrapping, because I sure forgot to grab paper and his Daddy wrapped everything the night before in what we had. 

Christmas trees! 



Funny enough, when I decided to start this birthday morning tradition on Elliot's birthday it went terribly wrong. We decorated, I sent Jeremy out for donuts, and Elliot had a cow. 

He is dead set on the fact that you can't have donuts if you aren't getting your hair cut. 

Who can blame him, they only get donuts when we all go to the barber shop. They all get trimmed and while Jeremy is getting a hair cut I take the boys next door to the donut shop to occupy them. 





We let Harry open one present before school, and I nudged him after what my MIL got him. She found a komodo dragon stuffed animal that the stomach unzipped to reveal its full of a ton of babies. 

Like the boy version of that pregnany Barbie. 😂

He loves it, and its equally cool and hilarious. 



After all of the birthday festivities - Harrison out bowled us all. To his benefit Jeremy jammed his finger just as we started and refused to let me bowl with the the guards up - my week of teacher scheduled doctors appointments began. 

Gotta love doing everything during any break from school. 

Had my yearly everything, and also found out I've hit the yearly mammogram age. With our family history I also need to decide if I finally want to get the genetic breast cancer screener I've been putting off for the last decade. I've just hesitated because I don't know if I want to know, but I want to know, but I also don't want to do what it takes to prevent this if I get a positive on that test. 

Ya know, great grammar, but the point is... I just don't know. 


Elliot has been bugging me to do differnt things at the zoo. Since Jeremy was with us I gave in to feeding the birds. He can go in, I still recall sitting under my desk crying when someone brought birds to class in 3rd grade for show and tell. 


With Jeremy in there feeding birds, the kids did great. Big ole chicken Elliot had a great time.

At some point of the birds barely flying around Jeremy walked out and convinced me to take his stick and go in... the birds started flying and jumpy Mama made for a jumpy Elliot. 
 


We ended our week with our ususal Kid Strong Acadiana afternoon. I hate that Harry only has two years left and wish we had started sooner. I love the coaches and how they motivate the kids. The boys enjoy it so much. It pushes them physically and they also have to listen and work in groups. 

Elliot got excited Saturday becuase Harry's class had an odd number of kids. They got to a game and everyone needed a partner, so Elliot got called in to work with Harrison. He was really beside himself getting to run around with the big boys. 


That about wraps us up. We had a pretty chill week, I didn't even get to two cleaning projects and two craft projects I intended to get to. 

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Runnaway Elliot

February 17, 2025

 The last few weeks were so busy, I was really glad we got a weekend with nothing really on the books. 


Friday night, there isn't a photo to prove it, but the kids went to a parent night at Kid Strong and we went to Top Golf. I love Top Golf, but really wish you could just book an hour slot. By the second hour my swing isn't as strong and Jeremy has a better shot at beating me! 


I've got a secret party trick of being decent at driving. Jeremy says I play golf like an old man, always consistent and straight. I blame that on being friends with a lot of the golf team in college. I'd go to the driving range and video them so they could see their swing, the benefit if I was taught how to swing a club by the college golf team. 



This month at work we have a ton of fun dress up days for the teachers, our principal does this once or twice a year. This particular week was dress like the students, the long socks had to be taken from the husband who is more inclined to changes in sock culture. It took forever to pry black ankle socks from hands. 


I may not be a favorite of my children's teachers for this, but I've used it for years. Harry struggles with fine motor skills and this helped him as a beginning writer.  If you're struggling with handwriting, or just generally being overwhelmed by a writing task - prewrite it in yellow marker or highlighter. 

By the time they hit 4th grade, and even 3rd I see this diminish. However, little boys, especially the neurodivergent type, hate to write. It's tedious, their hands aren't ready to write (yet American school curriculum pushes skills that are never appropriate), and they get frustrated. I have done this more with spelling lists and short answer writing. But seeing what they need to do and not a blank page helps. 



It also helps tremendouly with learning spacing. 

Now with older kids and spacing, I've used graph paper. By 4th grade spacing between words can be more of an issue than just getting all those letter on the paper. 


The temps dropped by down on Sunday, so Elliot insisted we go to the park. 

However, only Harrison and I went on a walk. Ellit got on his scooter and closed off those useless little boys ears, then promptly sped away. We watched him cross the road as we were jogging and yelling behind him, and he was quickly out of sight and on his own. 

Harrison kept making me promise that if we got to the car and didn't see him that I had to call Daddy and tell him we lost Elliot. 

But in true Elliot fashion, we finally got back to the car and there he was waiting. He said he told everyone in the park hello. When I gave my rant about kidnapping he just assured me that he wasn't kidnapped and acted like Harrison and I were overreacting. 

Typical. 

I really thought that if anything the geese would have slowed him down. Especially after how he reacted to being chased by that squirrel last time. 

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Snow Day 2 & 3

February 6, 2025


Name something better than freezing temps and sweats? Nothing. We are back in the 70s this week and I am dreaming of weather cold enough to turn on a space heater for. 

On the 2nd and 3rd day of snow on the ground we lazed around and did very little. It was a perfect winter wonderland where we (me) could pretend that we were snowed in and living that way up north life. 




Dill, much like Harrison, preferred life staring straight into the space heater. Surely he lost an eyelash with his behavior. At times the living room smelled of hot dog from him baking himself for so long. 




Elliot got into a drawing mood and spent two days making a book that he has since carried everywhere.
 



Elliot and I wandered to the park to see how it all looked before the snow melted. This is drama child when I said "Hey take a pic before we get home." Notice the stuffing coming out of his vest, he leaned on the old janky fence when they were in a snowball fight with the neighbors and tore it up. 









On day 2 the snow was still deep enough that the four wheeler was getting stuck. 







We now have to make up a day of school due to the snow. Well, I do. The boys school hasn't announced that. It was worth it though. Send me to Canada any day and I'll happily live in a winter wonderland.

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The Acadiana Blizzard

February 5, 2025

 What started as turning off the outside world during the snow week, morphed into having a cold and it being observation week. Now it's Wednesday and here we are... having skipped blogging. 


I don't know if you've seen photos, or heard about our record snowfall. But it the experience of a lifetime, and it might be the only time we experience this much snow in Acadiana in our lifetime. Magical doesn't even sum this up. 



Our usual is a few flutters and then completely melted by noon, ever 10 years. 

This 10 year snow started in the morning, continued into the afternoon, and stayed on the ground for most of the week. 

I refused to let the kids go outside and even touch it until the snowfall stopped at 2pm. 



Of course, we had no appropriate snow gear and sent the kids outside wearing surgical gloves over their mittens and grocery bags over their socks. 




The snow was so powdery it was as if we were trying to shape bags upon bags of confectioners sugar into balls. 







Harry was not such a fan, he lasted for two hours and was done for the rest of the week. Elliot on the other hand, he wants more and needs this to happen again asap.





Our backyard was our best snow, Jeremy has cleared a lot of the trees and foliage. He also went out the day before and cleaned up the yard to make sure we had the best snow... no dog bits. I appreciated that. I measured it being 7 inches in most areas. If you're curious about a trampoline in the snow, the kids said it's like bouncing on the ground. I didn't test it out. 




And finally, to top off being cold, we came inside and made snow cream. It was good, and if you're lactose intolerant... get the proper milk before it snows. Whole milk was the death of me. Totally worth it, but attempted murder.

The leftover Butterfinger bits from our bible study dessert and the kids chocolate syrup were a great addition. 



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When Dad's Away

January 7, 2025

Jeremy was gone this past weekend for the youth group's senior retreat. 

While that was happening I was once again living the youth pastor wife's life of tending to people shorter than me and doing my twice yearly baseboard deep clean. 

My main goals for Christmas break this year were to wash the couch (y'all Lovesac is AMAZING with how easy it is to clean), rent a carpet cleaner and get after all the rugs, and then crawl around this old house cleaning baseboards. 




Back in the Covid cleaning Instagram days I was turned onto the Go Clean Co. and have never looked back. A gallon of hot water with a tsp of powder Tide + a microfiber cloth is revolutionary. 


I just about finished, the only room left is our bedroom and bathroom. Plus any area I walked through without glasses. I hate cleaning with glasses on, it quickly points out everything I missed when I was cleaning without glasses, and honestly if I'm not at work or driving... I kinda live life blind. 


So don't ever judge anything you see at the house. I shoot for tidy, not sterile. 




In the home alone activity calendar, which I am already out of order on, the kids had their KidStrong day, and everyone is beyond happy to have leveled up to Alpha. All that really means if they can now be picked for Class Captain. Which Harry did get picked for. He was probably more excited and silly than helpful. 




Little Elliot finally leveling up! 


I'll dive into this more in another post, but he has been struggling with recurrent fevers, and I think we finally have some answers. But.. the fevers have gotten him behind Harry on his KidStrong level. So when he finally leveled up a week later he was beyond excited. 



Don't judge me, but trying to get a photo of an outfit is a daunting task. 
1. I don't take myself serious enough for it. 
2. Lighting is a full on joke at this house. 
3. I don't have a decently placed full length mirror. 


Regardless, this top is the best thing I've purchased in ages and I hope everyone can ignore me wearing it constantly from hence forth. 


See also, the failed attempts at getting a photo meant I was way behind my usual time for Sunday School. 




In the name of girl food and not having to cook for a husband, I bought a rotisserie chicken and lived my best life while he was gone. The go-to was a chunk of that chicken, half a sweet potato with butter/cinnamon/raw honey, and a salad with everything I had on top of it. Plus a LaCroix for good measure. 


Can we talk about the crime that is the grocery store not having regular radishes? They only had organic and I am not paying $5 for regular radishes. 




Back at work, and back to girl food, means back to protein shakes. 

The current ones is as follows: 
8 oz almond milk
frozen strawberries
chocolate protein powder
1 tbsp chia seeds
2 tbsp powder peanut butter



This is a late addition to the blog post, but in the land of girl dinner. I present to you "Healthier Utah Soda." 

I don't recommend this as an every day way to get in protein, but when you need a treat its a great 30 grams of protein for 200 calories that doesn't taste like yet another protein shake. 

The weeks between Thanksgiving and Christmas Break at work took this to another level and I used Coke Zero with Fairlife protein, leading me to consume more soda than I have likely had in the last decade combined. 

Maybe it's who I am now, on the cusp of 39, worried about protein intake, and tired. 

But on a more positive note, this tastes like a Coke float. 




Last but not least, Santa Gigi brought the kids a zoo pass. We found ourselves at the zoo twice while Jeremy was gone. My theory is if they aren't at home, they can't make a mess. 
Also, if they're outside... they'll get tired. 


Both of which are very important. 


Our local zoo seems to have been updating not just the animals, but walkways. It's been really nice, especially in this cooler weather. It's honestly so hot down here for so much of the year that we really squeeze in our outdoor activities between November - May. Other than that I better be in water to be outside. 

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